Smart Choices: Decision-Making and Refusal Skills
Grade 4 · Health & PE · NYS Health Standards 1 & 3 · 45 Minutes
NYS-Aligned Standards
Health Standard 1 — Health-enhancing decisions and personal health skills. Health Standard 3 — Managing resources and applying decision-making and refusal skills. NYS Learning Standards for Health, Physical Education, and FCS (2020)
Learning Objectives — “I Can” Statements
- I can use a step-by-step process to make a healthy decision.
- I can name and use at least three refusal strategies.
- I can explain why saying “no” to an unhealthy choice keeps me safe.
Essential Question
When someone pressures you to make an unhealthy choice, how can you say “no” and still feel confident?
Lesson Sequence
Hook / Warm-Up (8 min)
Read a short scenario: “A friend dares you to skip your homework to play a game. What could happen?” Students brainstorm possible outcomes — good and bad.
Direct Instruction (12 min)
- Introduce the STOP decision-making steps: State the problem, Think of choices, Organize the outcomes, Pick the healthy one.
- Introduce refusal strategies: say no clearly, give a reason, suggest a different idea, walk away, find a trusted adult.
Guided Practice (12 min)
In groups, students apply STOP to a scenario card (e.g., a stranger online asks for a photo; a friend offers something that isn’t theirs). Each group reports their healthy choice and refusal strategy.
Independent Practice (8 min)
Students write a short script showing themselves using a refusal strategy in a realistic situation.
Closure (5 min)
Share one refusal strategy you would actually use and why it fits you.
SDI & Differentiation Block
Supports for MLLs/ELLs
Entering/Emerging (NYSESLAT Levels 1–2):
- Refusal-strategy picture cards (stop hand, walk away, find adult)
- Sentence frame: “No thank you, because ___.”
Transitioning/Expanding (NYSESLAT Levels 3–4):
- Vocabulary: decision, consequence, refusal, pressure, trusted adult
- Provide the STOP steps as a labeled visual organizer
Supports for Students with IEPs
SDI Adaptation Dimensions: content, methodology, delivery
- Content: Focus on two refusal strategies; use one scenario instead of several
- Methodology: Role-play with teacher modeling first; visual STOP poster
- Delivery: Read scenarios aloud; allow verbal or acted responses; extended time
Suggested Placement: ICT, Resource Room
Model Response
“State the problem: a friend wants me to share answers on a test. Think of choices: say yes, say no, tell the teacher. Organize outcomes: cheating could get us both in trouble. Pick the healthy one: I’ll say, ‘No, I don’t want to cheat — let’s study together after school instead.’”
Alignment Record
| Field | Value |
|---|---|
| Standard Codes | Health Standard 1; Health Standard 3 |
| Framework | NYS Learning Standards for Health, Physical Education, and FCS (2020) |
| Source | nysed.gov — NYS Health/PE/FCS Learning Standards (2020) |
| Confidence | High Confidence |
| Validation Notes | Cited at the NYS Health Standard level. Decision-making and refusal skills are documented skill expectations under Standards 1 and 3 of the 2020 framework. |