Body Safety: Understanding Consent, Boundaries, and Safe Adults
Grade 1 · Health · NYS Health Standards 1.1.1 / 2.1.1 · 40 Minutes
Teacher Note: This lesson covers age-appropriate personal safety content. Follow your school’s Dignity for All Students Act (DASA) and child abuse prevention guidelines. Notify parents/guardians of this lesson per district policy. This lesson does NOT include sexual education content — it is focused on age-appropriate body safety, consent, and trusted adult identification.
NYS-Aligned Standards
Health Standard 1.1.1 — Describe the basic structure and functions of the human body and explain how the different parts and body systems work together. Health Standard 2.1.1 — Identify appropriate adult resources within and outside of school that students can use to help them address health-related issues and problems. NYS Learning Standards for Health, Physical Education, and Family and Consumer Sciences (2020)
Learning Objectives — “I Can” Statements
- I can name all parts of my body, including private parts (those covered by a bathing suit).
- I can explain that my body belongs to me and I can say “no” to unwanted touch.
- I can identify at least 3 safe adults I can talk to if something makes me feel unsafe.
Essential Question
What should you do if a touch feels wrong or makes you uncomfortable?
Lesson Sequence
Hook / Warm-Up (5 min)
Read aloud an original poem (teacher-created, no copyrighted texts): “My body is mine from head to toe, I get to say yes, I get to say no. If a touch feels bad or makes me sad, I tell a safe adult — nothing wrong with that.” Ask: “What does this poem mean? What does it mean that your body belongs to you?”
Direct Instruction (10 min)
- All body parts have names. Private parts = parts covered by a bathing suit. These are extra private.
- Rules of body safety:
- Rule 1: Your body belongs to YOU
- Rule 2: No one should touch your private parts except a doctor (with parent present) or a parent helping you stay clean or healthy
- Rule 3: You can say NO to any touch that feels wrong — even from family
- Rule 4: It’s never your fault if someone breaks the rules
- Rule 5: Secrets that scare you should always be told to a safe adult
- “Safe touch” vs. “Unsafe touch”: Use hand signals (thumbs up/thumbs down)
- High five (safe), hug with permission (safe), hitting (unsafe), touching private parts (unsafe)
Safe Adults Activity (12 min)
- Students draw a “Safety Shield”: a shield divided into 4 sections where they draw or write the name of 4 safe adults (e.g., parent, teacher, principal, aunt/uncle)
- Discuss: “What makes someone a safe adult? They believe you. They help you. They don’t make you keep secrets.”
- Also discuss: 911 and school counselor as community-level resources
Role-Play Practice (8 min)
Teacher narrates 3 scenarios (no acting out — verbal only):
- “A stranger at the park asks for a hug. What do you say and do?”
- “Someone you know touches you in a way that feels wrong. What do you do?”
- “Someone says ‘this is our secret’ after touching you. What do you do?” Students respond: “I say NO, I run to a safe adult, I tell them what happened.”
Closure (5 min)
Exit ticket: Students draw one safe adult and write (or dictate): “I can talk to ___ if I feel unsafe.”
SDI & Differentiation Block
Supports for MLLs/ELLs
Entering/Emerging (NYSESLAT Levels 1–2):
- Use body outline with labels (in English and student’s home language if available)
- Safe adult drawing activity requires no written language
- Use gestures: thumbs up (safe), thumbs down (unsafe) throughout
Transitioning/Expanding (NYSESLAT Levels 3–4):
- Vocabulary: safe, unsafe, private, boundary, permission, trusted adult
- Sentence frame: “A safe adult is someone who ___. I can tell them ___.”
Supports for Students with IEPs
SDI Adaptation Dimensions: content, methodology, delivery
- Content: Focus on Rules 1 and 5 only; simplify to 2 safe adults; use pictures instead of words on Safety Shield
- Methodology: Use AAC devices or picture symbols for responses; avoid verbal role-play if student cannot generalize fictional scenarios
- Delivery: Small group setting; read-aloud only; allow drawing-only response on exit ticket
Suggested Placement: ICT, Resource Room, Self-Contained (consult school counselor for students with trauma histories)
Answer Key / Model Response
Exit ticket: Any safe adult the student identifies (parent, teacher, counselor, grandparent, etc.) is correct. If a student writes a person who is concerning, follow mandatory reporting protocols.
Alignment Record
| Field | Value |
|---|---|
| Standard Codes | 1.1.1, 2.1.1 |
| Framework | NYS Learning Standards for Health, Physical Education, and Family and Consumer Sciences (2020) |
| Source | nysed.gov — NYS Health, PE, FCS Learning Standards (2020) |
| Confidence | High Confidence |
| Validation Notes | Health Standards 1.1.1 and 2.1.1 confirmed from the 2020 NYS framework. Body safety content age-appropriate for Grade 1; no sexual education content included. Mandatory reporting note included. |